but not too tightly.
but let me be free.
Provide for me,
but remember I could do it myself.
Make my fantasies real,
but honor the frailty of my humanity
Be a man
Be a man
Be a man.
be the idea I hold of what a man should be.
Rising awareness of the reality
of centuries of subjugation of the feminine
does not permit projecting everything onto the masculine.
This longing is not for you to satisfy.
This emptiness is not for you to fill.
This pain is not for you to fix.
This place in my heart where love dwells
holds a bench whereupon you may rest,
a nest to shelter us both,
and inspire our awakening communion.
But I cannot expect you to enter it
nor be annoyed at the garb you choose to wear in my temple,
or that you have scars and needs of your own.
This is the age of remembering.
First we remember ourselves.
We remember women, we remember the great fertile She.
Then we remember we can only get there
if we go as "we."
Discovering personal and relational wholeness
that leads at last to free.
Desire and wounds have blinded us
to the ways we perpetuate slavery
on the very ones we hope will love us.
"You should man up!"
Perhaps instead it's time for manning down
softening the grip,
releasing the wounding and the will.
here, take my hand.
Let's climb up